27: The Art of Flirting & Effortless Attraction

[00:00:00] Welcome back to Champagne Empress Podcast your sanctuary for feminine power. Magnetic attraction and living a life of deep love, luxury and devotion. If you're new here, you just stepped into a world where women don't chase they attract, where we don't settle. We set the standard and today, Ooh, baby. Get ready for what we're going to talk about. Because, you know, what. We're talking about. FLirting. And let's be real. 'cause. I know some of y'all thinking that flirting is a crime flirting, is that as flirting as that. Like making eye contact with a man is going to send you like straight to the pit of a heartbreak. No baby . Flirting is an art. It's playful. It's powerful. And when done, right. It's a magnet for everything you want in [00:01:00] life. Not just men listen. 

Go listen to the episode called Decentering men man. Because our life is not based around men we love men. We absolutely need men. Men are a crucial part. Of our lives, right. But. When we are a magnet for everything we want. It's money. Opportunities luxury. Ooh. Those upgrades, your. Dreaming up. All of it. So grab your glass of champagne. Fix your posture and let's get into it. Cheers.

first things first. Let's kill this myth. That flirting is just about men 

flirting is about life. We are here to flirt with life. It's about how you move. How you care of yourself? How you [00:02:00] engage with the world? It's about having an energy so delicious that people can't help, but lean in. Have you met someone who makes everything feel exciting. Like you could be ordering a damn coffee. And they make it feel like an adventure. That is flirting with life. So I want you to start getting into the habit because when we say we're going to embody the champagne, Empress life, it's literally flirting with life itself. It's flirting with, creation our work, the people in our life. It's flirting all way through it. And how does it look like? 

Right. So let's imagine you walk into a cafe. Let's just say cafe in Paris. Ooh. And instead of like the usual. Oh, I need [00:03:00] my coffee. I cant function in the morning. You know, I'll die energy. I want you to lean in. Make eye contact with the barista. Tilt your head slightly and say, What do you recommend for someone who needs to be dangerously charming today? 

Boom. That's effortless attraction. 

 Flirting is about being present and engaged. Flirting is a frequency. And I want you to tap into it. It's about how you breath, move and smile oh, my gosh. Flirting is the secret sauce. Of women who gets everything. with ease. And we're not going out there forcing it. Okay. And I know for some of y'all. It is not. Natural. And here's the thing about me. 

[00:04:00] Like I know for me flirting with life. Was generally easy as I grew up. I had to really take a step back and tame myself because I thought flirting was bad. So I was the girl going up who felt like, oh, I can't create too much attention because this is not wanted. This energy is bad. And as I grew up and really got into myself, especially, in college, right. 

I started getting into myself in college, but when I was in college I was using flirting as a way of getting what I wanted by manipulating my natural abilities. So, yes, it was like, oh, I want mostly I wanted this man. But one of the really started my spiritual journey and going into the art of my feminine power and really using my natural flirting abilities. 

So I can get the things I want in life, not to say, oh, [00:05:00] this is what I want and I'm going to get it. It's more like. I'm into the flirting energy all the time. I am flirting my way through life, because I'm in love with life. I'm in love with the people in it. I'm in love with the beauty, the people I get to encounter. 

 So that's when I really started to embody. My flirtatious way even more. And the more I did that, the more the champagne empress in me. got embodied I stood in my power. I took no shit. From no one. And I didn't flirt with someone because I could get them. It became an effortless part of who I was, because I truly believe. When I'm talking to someone. Eye contact a smile is me enjoying your presence [00:06:00] as well, because I acknowledge and honor my presence on this earth 

and I also honor you in that moment and I decide, okay, every moment can't be about. Complaining . Oh, I only slept for three hours last night. No, I woke up and I'm like, how can I create this energy? How can I flirt with the, when I'm designing for my client? How can I flirt? With this design. So, yes. Learning gets you be. Very easy for you. 

So I want you to let yourself tap into that energy. And before you say, but Georgette, I'm just not a flirty person. Baby. You've been flirting since birth okay.

Remember, you were batting your eyes. People were kneeling at your feet saying, oh, geez. I want to give her candy. I want to give her everything. You've been flirting since birth. So you just [00:07:00] forgot. Okay, but don't worry. 

I'm about to remind you. 'cause baby. This episode is going to bring your flirty. Side back. And I want you to go out there and flirt with life.

So now that we're clear. On why flirting is. Let's get into how to actually do it. 'cause I already know some of you are overthinking it. You know, it's like flirting is not about getting in your head. Especially when we talk about feminine embodiment let me remind you. This is totally embodied. Presence embodied. 

Confidence. You're in the body. And the flow of life, your feminine essence is to flow. So we're not in the head, right? The moment you start overthinking, you're already on the masculine side of things. So let's bring yourself back and tap into your feminine power in the [00:08:00] fact that you're going to let it flow. 

I'm pretty sure you're like, do I need to bat my lashes? So it's simpler than you think, right? So let's not overcomplicate things. I'm going to talk about three keys of effortless flirting today. So are you ready? Okay. Are you ready? So the one thing I love to do, guys. 

Okay. It's the power. Of the pause. I call it the power of the pause because. It creates an intensity. So. 

One thing you might not believe when I said the pause, right? Silence. Silence is sexy. Most women just want to fill the air. They want to talk nonstop. They feel the need to, oh my gosh. If I don't say something, there's something awkward. No. Silence is sexy. So today, I want to remind you that you don't [00:09:00] have to fill every second with words. Because the most captivating people know how to create space. So I want you to sit back and imagine someone asked you, what do you do? And instead of launching into a full Linkedin resume. take a sip of your dri nk? Smile and say, I create magic. Then wait and watch them lean in. 

That's power 

 Because believe me, no one wants your resume. And even the way to respond of what do you do conversation? I always say I create magical moments for my clients. And they're usually very intrigued. 

They're like, Ooh, tell me about the magic you get to create. And I get to talk about my work and I get to say, oh yes. So when I talk about my wedding couples, You know, I'm like, yes, I make sure that they are present on their day and making sure that they get to be [00:10:00] present and creating amazing memories for them. And when I do design for my client is making sure that I create,, a reality out of this world. 

And this is how I do it. I get to design a space, a feel, a moment for them to come to a world with their loved ones. And feel special and feel loved. This is a different way that we're flirting our way through life. We don't go into, oh, I'm a wedding planner and I design weddings and blah, blah, blah. You see how it sounds versus, I am able to create magic for my client and I do this and I do that. 

This is how I do it. I create a present moment. I create space, whatever it is you want to say. Because that's where the power. Lies. And the second key to effortless flirting. It's playfulness over perfection. Oh, my gosh. That's one thing I love to do. I love [00:11:00] playfulness. And whether is like through text messaging through first dates or anything like that. 

I love making sure that I'm very playful because. Life is our playground. So there's no perfection. We have to take the word perfectionism out the window. No one is perfect. So you showing up in your perfect little dress and your perfect little shoes or whatever. 

and painting a perfect life. 

No one cares. Okay. So I want you to flirt in the energy of play. Because flirting is about the energy. It's not perfection. It's teasing. It's curiosity. It's playing with your words. Like there are silk sheets. Instead of just saying, Hey. I want you to try. you look like someone who knows the best places to get into trouble around here. Oh, you see how that feels a little bit different. 'cause flirting should feel like a game [00:12:00] you enjoy playing, right? Because sometimes if you're on dating apps, you probably, get the, Hey how's your day. You know, and for me, the way I like to take that, I'm like, oh my day. I can't even imagine what trouble I'm going to get into what magic I'm going to uncover.. What about you? What are you getting yourself into? So you get to play with it. With all of it. If you don't know how to play with that energy, I want you to go and practice. And start getting out of your normal routine of, I'm fine. I'm good.

Of course we know you're good, but how can you use. A different approach when you're saying. My day's going well. And another key to effortless flirting. Is the eyes and the lips. Mm. Mm, mm. Well, let me tell you something, [00:13:00] your eyes are your super power. Because baby. You can say I'm innocent. What your lips. And I might ruin your life. With your eyes all. Same. time That is the art. The contrast. The mystery. You hold eye contact for just one second longer than normal. Let us slow smile creep up. And watch them melt. 

Is the science babe. It's the science. So I want you to practice. eye and lips coordination, what your lips are saying versus what your eyes. Are saying. Okay. It's kind of like saying, oh, would you like to know. 

And then your eyes are giving it away Ooh, is [00:14:00] that so. Ooh, tell me more. There's a curiosity, a mystery that your eyes connect with when your mouth is saying something. So you don't have to completely, say. This is what I'm thinking with my eye. They will know because it's the energy that they feel. There's so much energy behind the eye. And they could feel it. And this is the moment. Where you get to lean in. And let yourself be seen. I know that some people feel like eye contact is rude I grew up, Where they said you don't look at your elders in the eyes it's rude blah, blah, blah. However. Eye contact is the sexiest thing. 

It's me telling you that I am actually listening to you. I'm here with you. I'm present with you. [00:15:00] Instead of looking away. When I talk to my servers, I make eye contact with them because yes, in that present moment, They're talking to me, they're serving me and I'm hearing engaging with them, it's the same thing with anybody else. If I'm walking around. I am going to give you eye contact. 

So start practicing everywhere you go. I mean, you go out to dinner. When you go out, uh, Getting your coffee. I know how you love your coffees. So start practicing with your baristas. So yeah. And let that sink in. 

Because here's the real tea. Flirting isn't just for romance cause we hear, oh my God, that's how I'm going to get them in now. First of all. Well, you don't do this to get a man. 

We just happened to get one when we flirt. But flirting is isn't just for romance it's for life. Flirty woman get better service. [00:16:00] Better treatment. More opportunities and more luxury. Don't come at me. Okay. Don't come at me. Because. I've been practicing flirting with life. And believe me. I do. Get a lot of things. Because. Women who are flirting with life are in their magnetic, feminine energy. They know how to make people feel seen. Engage and alive 

the world rewards that energy.

So tapping into that. 

' cause flirty energy makes people want to say yes to you. 

When I, started really. dating after I left. My relationship and I started really studying all about feminine energy, all about, polarities, all about the energies. I [00:17:00] experimented. And yes. 

People say yes to you. Flirting with life makes life flirt back. Oh, yeah. And it's those feelings I feel so good. You become a magnet for the experiences. opportunities and luxury you desire. 

 So if you've been waiting. For permission to be more playful. More alluring and more magnetic. This is it. 

Step into your feminine power. Embrace the art of attraction and let life. Chase you for a change. Let it. Go practice. Call your best friend and flood real life together. 

Go out there. And be intentional about it. Let yourself come out of your comfort zone. [00:18:00] And allow yourself to see how life gets a flirt back to you. Because we are Champagne Empresses we are here for life to flirt with us. 

This is a lifestyle. Remember?

This is how we move through life. 

Now that you've gotten three ways to effortless flirting. I want you to put all of it in practice.

If you feel like you need. More advice on it. Let me know. But if this episode gave you life, I need you to do two things for me. I want you to screenshot this episode, share it to your Instagram story and tag me. Georgette Casimir and tag the champagne Empress, and Instagram. With your biggest flirting take away. I want to know. Are you going to practice 

the power. Of the pause. Get playful with your words. or [00:19:00] you going to master the art of the slow smile? Hmm. I want you to tell me. And stay tuned. As always, because next week we're coming in even hotter. Because we're talking about the power of walking away. Because a woman. Who knows when to leave. 

Oh, She's unstoppable. And you will not want to miss it. 

So, if you feel like you also need more support, You can always book. A one-on-one session. So we could tap into how we could navigate your flirting. So I could see how you actually flirting with life and so you can get better at it. So you could attract all the things you desire. In life. So until next time. Stay magnetic, stay [00:20:00] flirty. And I'll see you in the next episode of the champagne Empress podcast. 

Ciao.